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A Mail Order Bride Finds Herself in an Abusive Relationship. Over the next 1. 0 months, I took English lessons and e- mailed with Carl about the plan for my trip to the States. In the fall of 2. I arrived in Florida.
Cape Coral seemed like paradise—the sun, the palms, the orange and lemon trees. As we turned into the driveway at Carl's house, it looked like a palace to me: a four- bedroom Mediterranean- style home with a sunroom that was bigger than my entire apartment. Carl, however, did not complete the pretty picture in the way I'd hoped. The polite, generous man I'd met in my homeland seemed more distant here. The first thing he did was to introduce me to a cousin, an older woman who showed me how to cook and clean the way Carl liked. Next Carl made it clear that he wanted to start working on a family immediately. Indeed, the first time we had sex, it felt perfunctory and calculated, devoid of any passion.
Yes, I felt disappointed, but I decided to look at the act as just another chore that would be required of me in my new role. Soon after, Carl brought home an ovulation test kit so he could start charting my cycle and focus on getting me pregnant. At one point, Carl even tried to make Dimitri look more like a son of his own by dyeing Dimitri's blond hair black. Shocked, I shaved my son's head; Carl just laughed. Carl's behavior became controlling in other ways, too. He said it was too expensive for me to call my family, so he gave me one 1. When I wanted to send an e- mail, he'd privately enter his computer password, then press Send for me and log off.
Needless to say, I was having doubts about this arrangement. Still, I was willing to sacrifice for my son, who loved his fancy, rambling new house, full of new corners to discover. By the third month, I was pregnant. Carl and I got married in a courthouse in the fall of 2. Dimitri and me. I thought Carl might be happier with a child of his own on the way, but as the weeks wore on, he grew increasingly possessive.
I had no driver's license or even a key to the front door. When I asked for a key, Carl said I had nowhere to go. He had a point: I had no money, no friends, and no idea how to navigate this foreign country. He would say, . This is the impression you gave me in Ukraine. This is the impression you gave me in Ukraine. One time, when Dimitri ripped the wallpaper in his bedroom, Carl grabbed him and spanked him so hard, there were full red handprints on his backside.
After that, I told Carl I wanted to leave. But Carl begged Dimitri and me for forgiveness, saying he hadn't had any experience with children. And he refused to pay for my ticket home.
Not long after, we moved to the town of London, Kentucky, where Carl had taken a new job in a hospital. But his usual behavior soon resumed. Saying he was concerned about the water bill, he insisted that Dimitri flush the toilet only once a day, so my son had to pee in an empty milk jug all day and flush it down at night. Carl also began hitting my son again and dyeing his hair black. When I threatened to leave—and sleep on the streets if I had to—Carl had a new threat in return: He told me that he had not, in fact, filed paperwork for Dimitri's green card.
He would deport my son, he said, but keep me here. I didn't know where to turn; in Ukraine, there were no shelters or social services for women, and the police were corrupt. Our son, Giovanni, was born on Independence Day, July 4, 2. Thankfully, he was a healthy baby boy, even though Carl hadn't taken me to a doctor for prenatal care until seven months into my pregnancy. In those first few days with my newborn son, I would look at him and try to imagine that his father was someone I loved. Staring out the kitchen window at the golfers on the lush green course, I dreamed of escape. Carl, meanwhile, wanted to start working on more babies as soon as possible.
So I lied about my menstruation days to throw off his charts. Just when I felt on the verge of an emotional breakdown, something happened that would change everything: I was at the local Walmart one night with Carl and the kids, who were then 9 months and 4 years old, when Dimitri got lost in the store.
When we found him, Carl twisted Dimitri's ear so hard that my son let out a terrified shriek. A shocked bystander called the police, who arrived with a social worker. She talked to us in the store, then came to our house the next day. With Carl away at work, I told her my story. On the morning of May 5, 2. I'd come to America, I packed a few things, per the social worker, and called her while Carl was at work. A policeman drove the kids and me to a shelter; Carl filed for divorce the next day.
The shelter connected me with pro bono lawyers from a domestic- violence association. They would help me obtain child support, finalize my green card, and fight for custody of Giovanni. After three months in the shelter, the kids and I moved into low- income housing, and I saved everything I could from child support to buy a used car. Eventually I got a job at a Pizza Hut and began attending community college to train as a dental lab technician.
During this time, my mom came from Ukraine to help with the children. In November 2. 00.
I was awarded custody. But for the next six years, Carl dragged me back to court on technicalities and appeals. Today, I live and work in Louisville, Kentucky, and am in a relationship with a wonderful man I met at a friend's Thanksgiving dinner. Dimitri and I are U. S. I bring Giovanni to visit his father every week, but Carl and I do not speak. He is allowed to file for a custody review every two years, so I'm expecting a new court summons any day. Still, I no longer fear that my children will be taken from me, and we have a good life.
Would I do it all over again? But I don't look at life in terms of what I should have done differently. I hope that by telling my story, I can help another woman like me.
Perhaps the most important thing I've learned is that there are options for women in America: You don't need to stay in an abusive situation. You can get help. Kira Zalan is a freelance writer based in Washington, D. C. You should also check out: I Let My Tinder Matches Dress Me for a Week. Why I Didn't Take My Husband's Last Name. Mr. Too- Doting Exists.